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Coordinator’s Message Spiritual Care Requires Integrity Marilyn
Tuls Halstead, RN, PhD, AOCN®Westminster, MD mhalstead@towson.edu Although many of you are acquainted with my name because of previous positions I have held in the Spiritual Care SIG, some of you are new members (actually quite a few!), and I am new in the position of coordinator. I look forward to serving our SIG and profession by encouraging dialogue, thinking, and action in the area of spiritual care for patients with cancer. However, no one can do this without the help of many. So I encourage your participation in any way. What are your needs? How can the SIG become a meaningful part of your life and career? Let us know. Contact any one of the officers listed on the last page of this newsletter. The coordinator usually writes a few lines in the newsletter, and I will try to continue that custom. In thinking of a theme for writing my thoughts, I decided that I would look at the core values of ONS and relate them to spiritual care. To refresh your memory, I will include the following paragraphs about the core values and then briefly discuss the value for this newsletter: integrity. |
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I hadn’t intended to focus on end-of-life care. It just happened. As a clinical social worker, I had made a conscious commitment to advocate for the most vulnerable. At first, I worked with foster children, then with the sexually abused. Later, I found my way into oncology, hospice, pain management, and eventually palliative care. At each step, I discovered that although the clients who I served were different, their issues were strikingly similar. I found that all were struggling with transition and loss. My job in each was to offer anticipatory guidance, education, support, and a companioning presence and to bear witness to another’s journey of discovery and growth. It was only retrospectively that I recognized this work as spiritual care and that my responsibility was (is) always to nurture the spirit. Soul work invites introspection. I often say that a diagnosis of cancer is an invitation to consider the possibility of a person’s own mortality. Now I recognize that to work with those with life-threatening illness also invites an attentive caregiver to consider the same. In this role, we have the privilege to see dying done by experts and to benefit from this vicarious learning opportunity. What I have learned is that regrets increase our suffering and that dying comes packaged with enough suffering without adding any more. I have tried to use that knowledge in guiding my decision making ever since. I have discovered that despite the challenges inherent in identifying yourself as a change agent, the rewards are greater still. I sleep better at night, knowing that I have tried to take a stand and make a difference. Sitting at the bedside of a dying person reminds me that our work matters. Listening to those in our bereavement support group recalling the events of long-ago deaths reminds me how lasting this work is for those whose lives we touch. I keep a well-worn copy of Mosby’s Medical and Nursing Dictionary by my desk at all times. In it, I note that to palliate is “to soothe or relieve.” That seems to make it a synonym for spiritual care as well. The goal in either case is to assess a person in discomfort to better understand the source of his or her suffering. In both spiritual care and palliative care, we realize that we must individualize interventions if they are to be most meaningful. In both, we strive to integrate appreciation for the cultural nuances that influence us. Both require a commitment to be present with another to really hear and understand his or her personal narrative. Neither spiritual care nor palliative care readily lends itself to absolutes. Rather, both invite us to increase our tolerance of ambiguity. As a member of an interdisciplinary pain service, I have learned to be a pragmatist. The various equianalgesic dosing formulas serve as a metaphor for the many spiritual practices that offer comfort to our diverse community of patients served. Different strategies seem to work for different folks, and our responsibility is to be skillful and creative enough to have many choices available to soothe or relieve those we serve.
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